Tuesday, April 15, 2008

The Big 2-9.

We had the best weekend. We had Lily's second birthday extravaganza with my family up north. The traveling wasn't so much fun, but being there and celebrating with everyone was great. And is if that wasn't enough birthday fun, today is my big day. (Tax day, I know. I've always hated that!) :) My birthday has taken on a totally new significance for me since Lily. Her due date was on my birthday. Autumn was induced early, but she was due with Lily on April 15th. It's silly, I know, but it was one of the first things when our agency was describing the situation to us that gave me the goosebumps. I felt connected to the situation immediately. It's amazing how things work out.

My husband has already given me my birthday present. I had to get up and get moving immediately this morning so I could blog about it:) I struggle sometimes even still with missing teaching. It was so much more than a job for me - it really made up so much of who I was. I miss my students and I really miss a very good friend who taught with me. He knows this and gave me the most thoughtful, symbolic, and well-planned out gift. He bought me a copy of "The Elements of Style," which is a classic, often-used grammar guide. It's a special edition featuring different paintings dedicated to the grammar rules. I taught English, so it's kind of fun (and nerdy, I know), for me to page through it and look at everything. BUT that's not the best part. In the front cover, he has written, "A mother is the most important teacher. Don't ever forget the significance of your work." I love the symbolism of it. It's not just a grammar book; it's part of who I was and who I still am; not teaching in a school doesn't mean I'm not teaching. My heart overflows with love for this man. He is an incredible husband and father, and he makes me feel so appreciated. Isn't that what we need sometimes? Just for someone to acknowledge that what we do as mothers day in and day out is important. I just had to share! :) Hope all is well in bloggy land. I hate being gone for days at a time; I feel so out of it. I'll catch up today, I hope! Happy Tax Day. :)

26 comments:

Jessica White said...

Happy Birthday!

I love my copy of "Elements of Style" (B.S. in English). What an awesome thing for your husband to write: It is one of the most important teaching jobs...a life long commitment.


(Nestie: WhiteysWifey)

Gil said...

Strunk and White's "Elements of Style" is one of two 'bibles' that I use myself. The other being "The Canadian Style" as published by the Government of Canada.

And your husband is right; the teaching job you have right now is the most significant one you may ever have.

BTW, you share your birthday with my husband, although, today he is 40! Ah, to turn back the clock! Happy Birthday!

Lori Lavender Luz said...

Happy birthday to you, my dear!

I'm surprised at this gift, because it seems to me you already have all the elements of style. You are one classy chick!

Rachel said...

Happy birthday!

Jess said...

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!

What a sweet hubby! So thoughtful!

Hope you have a wonderful day!

GLouise said...

HAPPY BIRTHDAY my friend!!!! I hope you have a wonderful day!

And, you are almost exactly one year younger than me, too funny.

take care,
gl

Angi said...

Just dropping by to wish you a Happy Birthday!!! Sounds like it has already been a great one...may it only get better!

nickoletta100 said...

Happy birthday!!!

That is an incredibly thoughtful gift!!

hope548 said...

Happy Birthday!!
What a thoughtful gift. He's a keeper! Enjoy your birthday!

Anonymous said...

Happy Birthday! Have a great day!

Lollipop Goldstein said...

That smart husband--that is a great gift. So says the equally nerdy ex-English teacher.

Happy birthday!

HereWeGoAJen said...

Happy Birthday! And how special that your birthday was Lily's due date!

Yoka said...

Happy Birthday!!! I hope you have a great day.

LL said...

Happy Happy Birhtday!

Anonymous said...

Happy Birthday!

Your husband's gift is so sweet and thoughtful. Maybe he could give my husband a few pointers?

Christy said...

Happy Birthday! And what a wonderfully symbolic gift as well. Have fun celebrating your first birthday as a mom!

Mich said...

Happy birthday!! What a great gift--your husband is a very wise man!

Stilla Momma said...

HAppy Birthday :)

Stilla Momma said...

Oh and you share your birthday with my favorite aunt :)

Stacie said...

Happy day to you!

Lisa said...

SO thoughtful! And true. Your importance at Lily's first teacher can't be underestimated. Hope your birthday was great!

Maygy said...

What an incredible, thoughtful gift...I love what he wrote to you. I hope you had a fantastic birthday!

Esther Noelle said...

Happy Birthday! What a thoughtful birthday gift!!

candy said...

Happy Birthday!!!

i also am a fan of the elements of style. in fact, i almost became an english teacher. where did you teach?

your husband is awesome. that sounds like the perfect gift.

Melissa :) said...

Ohhhhhhhh happy birthday sugar! I hope you had a wonderful day & GOOD JOB hubby! He's a keeper! xoxo

Kara said...

Happy Belated Birthday!!! A+ on the birthday present from your husband, from a future teacher.

That is just too cool. I LOVE that book. I agree with the other commenters who posted that our hubby's need pointers from yours - will they get a group discount. You just don't get thoughtful and meaningful presents like that normally. I know most have good intentions but it's not about the money or cost of the present - it's the thought they put into the gift.